Saturday, April 13, 2013

Things I loved about my dear friend Eric Grodberg...


Things I loved about my dear friend Eric Grodberg...
*how he cared and prayed for his Father during his bout with cancer.
*how he handled losing his father to cancer with grace, hope, faith, and such strength...he held onto God ever so tightly and knowing God would carry him through.
*how he cared for and loved his mother after his father passed from cancer.
*he was a loyal friend.
*an honest friend.
*welcoming and hospitable, from the moment we met him.
*wittiness.
*goofiness.
*yet the ability to have deep, caring and thoughtful conversations.
*leadership, just like his father.
*Godly example.
*his willingness to share his amazing testimony of a flawed man, whose life was changed by God.
*the way he teased me when I cried in a movie with all the boys.
*when I texted him "haha", he always had fun teasing me about that too.
*his dancing skills at video games, haha, wait did I just say that?
*his delicious pumpkin pancakes.
*his love for learning.
*he liked the stars and knew quite a bit about how intricately God made them.
*his NYC stories.
*enjoyed spur of the moment trips with friends.
*his love for ultimate frisbee.
*his determination to finish school and complete his degree, which he did.
*greeting my family/friends when we came into Bubbakoos.
*he loved coffee and his favorite shop was "The Inkwell" in Long Branch, NJ.
*he loved Ocean Grove and telling the story of what it was years ago, and what it became for his parents through their love story.
*I actually recorded the above ^in a video on Eric's birthday one year as he gave my sister, Justin, and I a tour, he told me I wasn't allowed to post it on FB. But he was the best tour guide I've ever had in Ocean Grove, NJ.
*if we arrived late at the 8am service, he'd always sit behind us, poke my sister and I and make us laugh! During service, oops! 
*his love for friends and bringing them together, new with old.
*he knew of my love for cupcakes and told me which coffee shops sold them.
*he'd always take home leftover sweets, my Mom loved that too.
*his love for doing anything to just hang out with his friends - bbq's, movies at a friends, frisbee, out to watch a game or head to the theatre, etc... 
*the way he'd pet our dog Gideon and tease him because he is an adorable little poodle, that I dress...Eric affectionately called poor Giddy, "princess"...I think he got a kick out of me saying he's a boy Eric, haha.
*he had a lot of knowledge.
*his ability to make you laugh and smile, when you just had tears streaming down your face.
*he knew a lot of really interesting things.
*he met people were they were at.
*he accepted people where they were.
*he was the best small group leader ever and made every meeting exciting and encouraging.
*he introduced/brought together our group of friends...without him and his willingness to open his home, there would be no "us", as a whole unit, only single units. We are forever grateful.
*he carried the legacy of his father in so many ways, George, he too was another great man who opened his home and his heart to people.
*he left his own legacy, that will be carried on through so many lives and will forever remain in our hearts...   



Memories, sweet memories...  
















Friday, April 12, 2013

"Our Hope Endures" ~ In Memoriam of Eric. ♥



Natalie Grant ~ "Our Hope Endures"

You would think only so much can go wrong
Calamity only strikes once
And you assume this one has suffered her share
Life will be kinder from here
Oh, but sometimes the sun stays hidden for years
Sometimes the sky rains night after night
When will it clear?

But our Hope endures the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
Let the earth quake
Our Hope is unchanged

How do we comprehend peace within pain?
Or joy at a good man's wake?
Walk a mile with the woman whose body is torn
From illness, but she marches on.
Oh, 'cause sometimes the sun stays hidden for years
Sometimes the sky rains night after night
When will it clear?

But our Hope endures the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
Let the earth quake
Our Hope is unchanged

Emmanuel, God is with us
El Shaddai, all sufficient
We never walk alone
And this is our hope

But our Hope endures the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
Let the earth quake
Our Hope is unchanged

Wow, heard this song today for the millionth time but this time it spoke to me in a completely different way.  Perhaps, because this time it became more personal... Just two days ago, we lost our dear friend Eric Grodberg.  He was tragically killed by a man who decided to run a red light at 11:00pm on April 9, 2013.  Eric was loved by so many and brought many of my friends together, including a few friends with their significant others.  Just a few years ago (2009) Eric's father, George passed from cancer after being treated it for it a few years ago.  Eric moved back to Toms River from NYC in 2006, it seems God knew long before we did...that his parents and brother would need him, many people would be influenced by Eric's life back in Toms River, and that he would serve a purpose far greater than he ever imagined.  Only God knew how precious everyone's time with Eric would be from 2006-2009...

Tomorrow morning I will post another blog I have drafted before we head to say our final goodbye's to a dear friend of ours.  Writing and singing have always been therapeutic for me, coincidentally my friend Eric loved reading and writing, so I hope he enjoys my writings... This was difficult for me to write without tears, but the photos below made me smile.  So I decided to share those as well.

Tomorrow is going to be a tough day, filled with lots of tears, hugs, and memories of Eric that will make us smile and laugh...  A day in memoriam of our dear friend Eric Grodberg.  A day where we share our love for Eric with his precious mother Bonnie, brother Scott, his wife Trish, and his girlfriend Allison.  He will be greatly missed... It is often said "Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget."  Eric was this kind of friend.  He is one with whom God must have surely been pleased...  Thank you for being my friend Eric.  I was truly blessed to have a friendship with you and your father, through whom I met you... You will be missed more than you can imagine.  Heaven has gained another angel.  Say hello to your father George and Scott Panepinto for me!  Give them a big hug for me too!  I'm sure you guys are having a huge party up there, jokes and all...      

♥  And one more thing I must say you have an amazing mother!  When I heard the news I was hurt, but immediately thought of your sweet mother.  Bonnie who is a beautiful woman, Godly, and with strength I could only dream having.  Her faith in God, her hope, and ability to remain steadfast are worthy of honor.  She is the epitome of a Proverbs 31 woman... I admire her, more than you ever knew, in fact more than she knows...  I will continue to pray for her and keep your memory alive my friend.     

    Friends as we grieve for our loss here on Earth tomorrow and rejoice in Heaven's gain... we must remember, "Emmanuel, God is with us.  El Shaddai, all sufficient.  We never walk alone... Our hope endures the worst of conditions... Our Hope is unchanged."    
  
♥  Rest in Peace :: Eric 4.9.13


Eric Grodberg :: Obituary